What a Husband can do to REFRESH the marriage:

1. Read a Psalm to your wife and then pray for her before you go to work.
2. Give her a kiss and hug in the morning before you go to work.
3. Ask her what music she would like to hear and put it on.
4. Reach over and touch her (non-sexual) when you are riding in the car.
5. Make her breakfast and serve it to your wife in bed.
6. Tell your wife that you love her.
7. Put your things away when you come in.
8. If you are going to stop at the store for something ask her if there is anything that she wants or needs.
9. Rub her body or some part of your wife (non-sexually) before going to sleep with full concentration.
10. Initiate devotions with your wife in the evening rather than watch TV.
11. Look at your wife intently sometime when she’s telling you something.
12. Tell your wife when she looks attractive.
13. Ask your wife what she’d like to do for a day or weekend with the desire to do what she suggests.
14. Make her a romantic dinner meal with all the trimmings (attention to details).
15. Hug your wife at least three times in one day.
16. Bring our wife one of her favorite flowers.
17. Write her a love letter.
18. Brag about her when you're out with your friends.
19. Before you leave for work set the table for her breakfast, leaving her a bowl for cereal, a cup for orange juice, strawberries, a napkin, and a spoon.
20. Place special little love notes, cartoons, jokes, or small articles in her drawer or desk or in the kitchen.
21. Send your wife an e-card that expresses your love and appreciation for all your wife does for you (hallmark.com or bluemountain.com).
22. Initiate intimate conversation with your wife.
23. Let your wife have the remote control for the entire evening.

What a Wife can do to REFRESH the Marriage:

1. Read a chapter out of psalms and pray for him before he goes to work.
2. Wash his back.
3. Smile and say you are glad to see him when you wake up.
4. Make him fresh squeezed orange juice.
5. Call your husband at work and tell him you love him.
6. Acknowledge his affectionate advances.
7. Massage his shoulders and back.
8. Tell someone how proud you are of your husband when he is around.
9. Touch him while he drives.
10. Ask your husband how you can pray for him today.
11. Hold your husband when you see that he is down.
12. Ask him about his experiences at work.
13. Send your husband an e-card that lets him know how much you love, appreciate and respect him (hallmark.com or bluemountain.com).
14. Tell your husband that you care about him in a non-verbal way.
15. Tell your husband that he is nice to be around and that you respect him.
16. Dress for him in way that lets him know you desire your husband sexually.
17. Initiate sex with your husband.
18. Leave him a love note in his lunch box, briefcase or tool box.
19. Leave him a trail of post-it notes in the hallway with arrows on them leading all the way to the bedroom.
20. Brag about him when we're out with our friends.
21. Leave him a message on the mirror so it appears when he takes a shower and it fogs up in the morning before he goes to work.
22. Leave him a card saying how much you love and appreciate him under his pillow.
23. Make your husband his favorite meal for just the two of you.